DeCaf - Me, code monkey by day, dog-wrangler/awesome sleeper by night.
Latte - My dear wife of 8 years.
BoyCat - Our first pet we got together. He's simple but sweet.
GirlCat - She's a riddle wrapped up in an enigma wrapped in a mystery. Cuddly one moment, off killing vermin the next.
Puppy - Husky/Pointer mix, 4.5 years old. The love of Latte's life.
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Blogs I Follow
- Barf Bags Not Included
- Pepibebe | nurturing by nature
- Mama Soto
- Queer and Conceiving
- Two birds, One love
- .breaking into blossom.
- The Gayby Project: Making the Next Generation of Fabulous
- Mother Issues
- Ladylove & Babydust
- Another Life Pause
- Mama et Maman
- My Perfect Breakdown
- Two Immas
- banana seat
- Baby Fever
- Our Sunflower Baby
- Keeping Up With The Joneses
- Two Brute Yogis Sitting In a Tree
- Impossibly Royal
- A Family of B's
- Nicole & Autumn’s Journey to Becoming Mommies
- (not) pregnant in rezza
- Two Chicks' Fertility
- Queer Conceptional
- Keeping up with the Hays
- The Road Ahead: Jen & Mary Pat Try to Make a Baby
- Hooded Spirits
- Lesbians on the Corner
- Mama, Interrupted
- A Day in the Life
- So Damn Jenn
- Her eggs. My nest.
- From PhD to Farm
- Just, what?
- are you my moms?
- Giraffe and Ducks adventure to becoming mummies
- Andrea and Ari's TTC Journal
- Bs and Babies
- Hound Mamas
- My curious 30s
- Babies for Ladies
- Two Ladies Making Babies
Monthly Archives: September 2013
This has been the best weekend in a very long time. Not sure if life is right… Latte had a good weekend. Puppy got a lot of outside exercise. Roommate2 basically is fostering FosterCat2. It makes me feel irresponsible, but … Continue reading
Good news: 1. I am back to my pre-grad school weight. 2. Latte seems to be coming around on the us having a kid thing. Bad news: – She wants us to wait five years. I’ll be 36/37 then. I … Continue reading
Lately MtnDew has just been a lightning rod for drama. First he found out that one of his Exes finally came out to his family. That had been *an issue* in their relationship. They have been broken up for a … Continue reading
I’ve got several post-ideas swimming around in my brain. But for now I’m just going to talk about diet/exercise. I’m a horribly lazy person. Therefore I prefer jogging as my method of exercise. That and yoga, because I sit at … Continue reading
This is one of the best articles I’ve read that deals with living with a partner who has a mental illness.
To do: – Maybe take Puppy to the dog park. Maybe. – Run longer. (yes, I’ve started running again) 🙂 – Cook dinner – Plot the rest of my life I’ve started running again, and it is awesome. I feel … Continue reading
We humans believe we are self-aware. At least middle-class Midwesterners do. We pride ourselves on how we see things as they are. We may apologize for not having spare change for the panhandlers, but we understand that giving them a … Continue reading
So, we added a couple (temporary) members to the family yesterday. Our BFF MtnDew’s apartment mangers found out about his cats (turns out, repairmen can be little snitches when their feelings are hurt and asking them to do their job … Continue reading
It’s stressful to be in a marriage with only one income. I want to support my wife, but it’s getting to the point where because of the job change I had to make, we’re getting by each month without much … Continue reading