So, Latte’s excited enough for us to get on the TTC train February to take a second job (her first job is painting/selling art and it’s kind of sporadic anyway as it’s self-directed and I love her but she gets distracted very easily).
Part of it is that she thinks it’d be best if I weren’t very pregnant in August (it’s too hot enough as is and I agree) or Feb/March (Betty can knock me over if I’m on ice). I think I need to dig up a chart showing the odds of conception per month of trying so she can realize that the odds of us conceiving on the first try are really tiny. It’d be great if it happened, for sure, but I’m planning on it taking more than a couple tries (probably 5-7).
We went to my cousin’s bridal shower. It was organized by my mom who isn’t great with organizing anything but children. It went well. I’d kind of been avoiding my mom for a while since she is very passive-aggressively against my marriage. But she was nice enough yesterday. Maybe a grandbaby is going to make her more accepting? Who knows.
Latte and MtnDew had an argument or something. I’m not entirely sure, I don’t manage other adults’ relationships with each other. We visited him last night and gave him his Christmas gift (Despicable Me 2 – he loved it. I was bothered by the ‘kids need a mom even if they have a dad’-theme, single parents can be great parents and women aren’t the only ones who can nurture children).